Top 10 Things to Do Before Your Child Leaves for College

Sending your child off to college is one of the most emotional—and exciting—milestones in parenting. Whether it's your first or your fifth time doing this, there’s always a mix of pride, anxiety, and a never-ending to-do list. If you're anything like me, you're probably wondering what needs to get done to make sure your child is prepared, supported, and—let’s be honest—remembers to do laundry once in a while.

Here are the Top 10 Things to Do Before Your Child Leaves for College, with practical advice and mom-tested tips to ease the transition for both of you:
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1. Get the Paperwork in Order
Before the dorm is even decorated, make sure you've completed all the essential forms: medical records, immunization documentation, financial aid, and other important paperwork. A folder (digital or physical) with all this information can be a lifesaver for both you and your child.
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2. Schedule a Doctor & Dentist Visit
College health centers are great, but it’s ideal to start the year healthy. Schedule those annual checkups, refill prescriptions, and take care of any dental cleanings or eye exams before they head out.
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3. Teach Basic Life Skills
Even the brightest students can be baffled by laundry settings or how to reset a Wi-Fi router. Spend some time showing your child how to:
•    Do laundry (separate colors!)
•    Cook a few basic meals
•    Budget money
•    Manage appointments
You’ll thank yourself later.
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4. Make a Packing List—and Stick to It
Dorm rooms are small. Like really small. Help your child pack smart by sticking to the essentials. Don’t forget power strips, a shower caddy, first-aid supplies, and command hooks. And if your child’s college is far from home, check the weather—it may call for items you hadn’t thought of.
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5. Open a Bank Account (or Set Up Access)
Make sure your child has a way to manage their money and that you can transfer funds easily if needed. Set up mobile banking and walk through how to keep financial info safe.
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6. Create a Communication Plan
Will you talk daily? Weekly FaceTime? Or just text when something’s wrong? Discuss how often you’ll check in so neither of you is left wondering. (But also, be prepared for that first week silence—they’re adjusting.)
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7. Talk About Mental Health
College is a big transition. Let your child know it’s okay to ask for help. Look into the college’s counseling resources and talk openly about managing stress, homesickness, and anxiety. It’s one of the most loving things you can do.
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8. Write a Letter They Can Read Later
Slip a handwritten note into their luggage or dorm supplies. Tell them how proud you are, remind them of their strengths, and assure them you’ll always be cheering them on. (Warning: You may cry while writing it—but it’s worth it.)
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9. Sign Up for a Monthly Care Package Subscription
Let’s be real—everyone loves mail. And when it’s something that comforts both body and soul, it’s even better. I highly recommend our Catholic Care Packages designed just for college students. Each monthly box includes:
•    Comforting snacks
•    Faith-based items like rosaries, prayer cards, and devotional tools
•    Practical items to support spiritual growth
It’s a meaningful way to stay connected and encourage them in their faith when you can’t be there in person. It’s peace of mind for you, and a reminder of home and faith for them.
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10. Plan One Last Fun Family Day
Before the whirlwind of move-in day hits, carve out time for one last memory: a hike, game night, family dinner, or favorite movie marathon. It doesn’t need to be extravagant—just intentional. You’ll both carry that memory with you through the tough first weeks apart.
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Final Thoughts
This chapter is bittersweet, but it’s also the beginning of something beautiful. As moms, our job doesn’t end—it just changes. With a little preparation, a lot of prayer, and some practical planning, you can help launch your child confidently into this new adventure.

And don’t forget to check out SendThemLove.com for that monthly care package—because a little love from home goes a long way.