How to Help your Catholic Child as they prepare to go off to College

It’s a moment filled with pride—and let’s be honest—a few tears. You’ve watched your child grow, guided them through the ups and downs of childhood and high school, and now they’re off to college. For Catholic parents, this season can bring an added layer of worry: Will my child stay connected to their faith? Will they remember the values we’ve nurtured at home?

The good news? You’re not alone. And there are loving, practical ways to support your child emotionally and spiritually as they start this exciting chapter.

Remind Them They’re Never Alone
College life can feel overwhelming, especially in those first few weeks. Between new roommates, classes, and the whirlwind of social events, it’s easy for even the strongest faith to feel distant.

Before they leave, remind your child that God is walking them step for step. Share your own favorite Bible verse or comforting prayer that they can keep with them when feeling homesick and anxious.

Stay Connected with Small Reminders of Home
Text and calls are wonderful, but there's no substitute for something tangible to remind your child that you care. So, we created SendThemLove.com's Catholic College Care Packages—monthly care packages designed to comfort your child and remind them that they are loved, not only by you, but by God as well.

Each package includes:
✔ Your personal message (we'll print it elegantly and place it inside)
✔ An engraved inspirational Bible or favorite Saint quote
✔ A tangible Catholic item, like a Rosary, prayer book, or Advent calendar
✔ Saint card
✔ Comforting Snacks & Candy
✔ Our commitment to pray for them

It's a hug of faith from home, delivered to them at college.

Promote Community and Faith Life
Most schools have vibrant Catholic communities—Newman Centers, campus ministries, or parishes with young adult groups nearby. Get your child to them early. Even the quiet kid will feel more comfortable knowing they have a place where their spirituality is nurtured.

Send Faith-Filled Encouragement Monthly
We know that college calendars are full and it might be tricky to find time to send letters or care packages on a regular basis. That's why our Catholic College Care Package subscription runs from September through April—so your student will receive a special, themed box each month of the school year.

Each package is a surprise delight in store for them, offering both material support and reminder of the faith you share.

You've Got This
As you send your child off to college, you're making one of the most courageous, selfless things you'll ever do. Trust that the foundation you've laid will stay with them—and that you can also keep serving that connection, month to month, with authentic affirmation.

Let us help you help your child on their path of faith. Learn more about our Catholic College Care Packages at SendThemLove.com.

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